They are things that doesn’t come naturally to you. You know what your are good at? Breathing, walking, thinking, etc Why didn’t you mention those as your strengths? Because they come naturally. You didn’t even have to think about them. I see this all the time. I often ask this question to a group. It’s […]

He is lazy. She doesn’t get things done. Have you had these kinds of thoughts before? Have you ever thought that by putting such boundaries, you are making that person into that stereotype? This is in line with our talk about judging others in a single act. If they are not doing it to intentionally […]

You become an asshole. Never try to enforce your standard on others. Regardless of it being a normal, socially acceptable, or even ethical. What is normal to you can be very different to others.

Adults were also children not long ago We commonly make the mistake that we are all grown up and we have all the rights to command our child. But if you think about it, it’s only been few years since we were kids. Have we learnt so much since then? This again is us getting […]

In contrary, we only know what we know. This is an important psychological statement. We tend to think around the world based on the things we know. Even a three year old thinks he or she knows it all. Confidence and value is important. But stay humble and keep you mind open that there are […]

It’s because you hurt them. Not because they are afraid of you.

Once you start applying it to others You become a hypocrite that judges others strictly while you fail to see your own shortcomings. I know you are trying your best to do the right things. But do not judge others. Period!