That puts the other person on the spot. Based on the tone, you can sound aggressive, accusing, ordering, dissatisfied, and at times attacking. “You have to ~~” “What are you~~” “Why did you …?” It can take a big toll on the person.
If you are better at something. You just had better opportunities.
Like how we waste a new toothpaste.
We waste most things when abundant.
Then regret when only few are left.