That puts the other person on the spot. Based on the tone, you can sound aggressive, accusing, ordering, dissatisfied, and at times attacking. “You have to ~~” “What are you~~” “Why did you …?” It can take a big toll on the person.
A relationship is like a stone tower.
It takes much care and effort to build.
Yet one mistake can make it fall apart.
Don’t count on all the good you have done.
It is the one time you didn’t, that will matter the most.